sehro:
medlilove:
USE THESE REDDIT SUBS INSTEAD PLEASE FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!!!!!!
Hate Reddit if you want, but using these subs are your best chance. People gather in these subs because they have charity to spare:
/r/Assistance
/r/legaladvice
/r/RandomKindness
/r/Charity
/r/care
/r/Random_Acts_Of_Pizza
/r/Food_Pantry
https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfPetFood/
https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfChristmas/
https://www.reddit.com/r/almosthomeless/
https://www.reddit.com/r/homeless
/r/freelance
/r/povertyfinance
/r/thrifty
/r/borrow
/r/gofundme
/r/depression
/r/familysupport
/r/transitions
I never see anyone actually getting any significant donations on tumblr and to be honest, tumblr is the worst place to ask for assistance. Use it as your last resort, it frustrates me to no end seeing people begging for help, reblogging the same post over and over, the same types of posts over and over, to no avail, when people are waiting to help you on a different part of the web
GO TO WHERE THE HELP IS. IF YOU WANT DIRECT ACTION TO WORK STOP WITH TUMBLR AND USE REDDIT.
PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF SATAN REBLOG THIS SO WE CAN START REDUCING THE AMOUNT OF DONATION POSTS THAT GET STUCK FLOATING AROUND THIS WEBSITE
Precisely this, but for one.
Don’t go to /r/legaladvice
It’s a cesspit, and usually wrong anymore.
I can’t really tell my friends anything yet but I am being flirted with left and right and finally it feels good and not weird and finally I know how to be in control and not let someone make me sad and anyway there’s a lot of cute people around me
bingosomen:
bingosomen:
Personal philosophy
Other variants per request, glad we’re all on the same page
-started hanging out with a girl i met a camp (we were both counselors)
-have the feeling she’s flirting
-she definitely is
-hanging out and she asks how old i am and says she thought i was 19
-im 20
-she’s 27
-i didnt really think much of it but my friends HATE the fact that there’s a seven year age gap
-because im insane i asked upfront if our hanging out had dating intention or making friends vibes and she said the former
-i told her i’m not in a space where i can date in a healthy way (this is true lol last summer fucked me the fuck up)
-she says it’s cool and we both still wanna be friends
-i did what i needed to do in terms of stopping it before it starts and saving us both the heartache of a relationship where one person can’t be intimate without hurting themselves and can’t trust and can’t help but give in to the other’s wants until there’s nothing left to give and can’t currently accept being loved that way
-i feel like dating could be sweet but also i don’t know how comfortable i am with the age gap yet and plus if we’re gonna be friends the only difference pretty much (in my book) is affection and certain kinds of emotional intimacy
-last summer left me with the kinds of memories i break down at the thought of and physically flinch when i remember how those people treated me and until i can look back and say I’ve actually healed I don’t think dating is a smart idea for me.
-it feels like it sucks to pass on this chance with her but i know i would hurt myself drastically by dating anyone right now and while I’m a little bummed i recognize that this is proactive healing and self care. I think developing more close friendships is a good way to practice emotional vulnerability in an authentic way that’s not the result of wanting to be wanted.
-idk i got issues man but i know i did the right thing
-now the question is, we were gonna hang out this week but I’m thinking that putting it off til next week might be good for processing and not forcing the friendship especially if there’s any hurt on her side, but doing it this week would be good for not letting things fester or go unsaid especially when talking about why I’m off limits to the dating world. I think i’m gonna suggest this Saturday cause that’s a reasonable amount of time I think
-ok im done
kira-serialfaggot:
twinkenjoyer-deactivated2023071:
ahamkaracature:
axziom13:
Gamer moment
true gamers are equal opportunity haters
I used an enby pride flag in league (which gives you a little flag trail behind your character) and someone said to me:
“What are your pronouns so I can insult you properly”
hellomingo:
on “today’s twitter shenanigans”
borderlinereminders:
Learn to say “can you love me a bit harder today? It’s a rough day” and then explain how you want to be loved harder.
Learn to say “I could use some support. Are you able to provide some? This is how you can support me -“
Learn to say “I feel lonely. Are you able to keep me company?”
Learn to say “I’m feeling overwhelmed. Can I talk to you about it?”
Do this instead of dropping hints or expecting someone to be able to read you. What may be obvious to you isn’t necessarily obvious to someone else. You’re often hurting your own feelings by not communicating your needs and just hoping people meet them anyways.
I know this is easier said than done. We often drop hints because we feel ashamed or bad about asking for help. But the truth is, for most of our loved ones, us hinting at things is exhausting. It can also set them up for failure because they don’t know your expectations. Sometimes they miss hints but sometimes they ignore them because it’s more draining when they aren’t asked directly. It’s very likely your loved one would appreciate you being direct.
People often want to support and help you, but a lot of them like to be told how they can do that.
ohklah0ma:
i love you nonbinary people named sock and leaf and twig and shoe and fucking microwave for all i care i love you nonbinary people with weird names i love you nonbinaries who can give themselves names they love and put up with people giving them shit for naming themselves frog i love you self confidence i love you
eggplantmaniac420:
attention perishable girls:
its going to be room temperature today. be careful out there.
failhag:
you need to be earnest. you need to tell people that you love them. you need to speak on how you’re feeling honestly. you need to be sentimental. you need to stop letting the fear of other people laughing at you have so much control over how you express yourself. you need to get over yourself. you need to be embarrassing but true.
